I'm going to give another perspective for the people on tsubasachronicle.net, cause the one whom Kjesta quoted is actually very nice... When she claimed she was homophobic, what she meant was she really isn't into shounen ai or shoujo ai. In that sense, I don't think there's anything wrong... they all have their own preferences, and besides... she never really bashed KuroFye because they're shounen-ai, she just didn't prefer them. In fact, I don't remember that particualr person claiming, (like all the other weird members there as well) that KuroFye can't be gay or KuroFye must not happen and all that kind of stuff. It's her prefernce and she doesn't prefer it.
I know that people must be open minded, especially seeing as CLAMP is very open about this. But who are we to force people? We should be able to show that we do have open mindedness and not only does shounen-ai not bother us, it's also quite interesting. Someday, I do hope she sees that shounen or shoujo ai is not that bad... but until then, telling people off or insulting them especially in a different forum is actually rather mean. I'm sorry, but I thought quoting her from there was a bit too much, especially since she isn't one of those who say KuroFye can't be together. She may support KuroTomo and go crazy over small little KuroTomo things and tends to put it into people's faces... but she has never said KuroFye cannot be together (even though she cannot see the pairing as possible, she has never bashed them). So I think it's wrong to judge people without really knowing them well.
If you want to talk about judging forums, I might say I judged this forum as well. But that's going off topic... what I'm trying to say that you shouldn't judge people for what they think and like, unless you really know them. I feel really sorry for her, seeing that people have been taking her statements the wrong way. That board really isn't that bad... there are quite a few KuroFye fans still there who continue to root for their favourite coupling and I applaud them for bearing with the crazy real homophobic people.