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How to deal with the aftereffects of a breakup

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Konata Izumi:
Ok heres the thing...

Me and my gf broke up, because of our misunderstandings and differences, and she cant forgive me for thta... Now all week long, my friends + parents tell me to move on in life... So I did, but I cant shake her off of my head, and memories of her are in a way still stuck with me... I just came of an emotional roller-coaster last week, and I just wanna know your thoughts....

What should i really do to completely ease my pain?  :cry:

Strawberry:
Poor you and I know how it feels *hugs* I'm not the best person to give advice, but my advice is to hang out with your best friends and enjoy yourself. I think that can make you forget about your pain because you will feel happy hanging out with your friends.

I got a friend who had a similiar problem, but his problem was different. He likes this girl over on the interenet and the girl likes him too. They both have been talking for over 2 years but never meet each other, but now the girl never been on the net for almost a year and he can't get over it. Myself as one of his best friends try to help him get over it and forget about it by making him happy and keeping him company so he will have friends to support him. Your friends should do the same ^^

Good luck and hope your pain will fade,

princesslore:
Well.... it depends... on BOTH of you

I know how you feel.... sniff....

I mean, you need to take enough time for you, some times takes weeks... sometimes takes months... years... Say, you can try many things, like meeting other girls like Heero said.

In my case, it took 2 years... (yeah... the hell..) but don't give up. This things are for you to get stronger. And the best thing of it, you'll feel happier than before, when you finish this "duel". Take your time... have fun... find peace.... But, I think noone can tell you how does your heart feel, and what does it need but you. Take your time to listen. And I also think, crying is a great way to heal the pain. You'll feel better.

DON'T GIVE UP!!!! :okay:

xOLight_AngelOx:
Well i'm not sure if i'm much help because i never had a bf before. i know it might be hard to forget someone you love but heres a piece of advice that my brother told me "time heals all wounds". my brother told me that when he was suffering from well.... love. well i hope that helps i don't have much experience :sweatdrop:.

Sya0ran:
Just move on with your life no matter if everything reminds you of her.  I've had 4 boyfriend's before and each of them inflicted pain (emotionally, mind you) on me that I didn't think I could move on.  It took me about a year each to get over each of them and move on and what I did was hang out with my friends.

Do the usual things I did before I went out.  I think you should do the same thing but as Princesslore said, it takes time for each person to heal and it depends on them.  Just enjoy your life and live it to the fullest.  That's all the advice I can offer you.  =/  <3

*glompage like whoa*  I wish you the best of luck~

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