I know it always drove me and my sister crazy to be called "The Twins". We have names, you know! And while identical, we look pretty different - in school, I was always a couple of sizes bigger than her (that's reversed now, he he!) and she dyed her hair all kinds of colors. We seem so different to each other, so why can't other people tell the difference? The deal is, you can see who really cares about you as a person by seeing who is actually capable of distinguishing from your twin, because they actually tried to figure out the differences between you.