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LSD · « **Reply #2980 on:** January 24 2006, 11:11 am »

well just keep smiling *

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Jeannette · « **Reply #2981 on:** January 24 2006, 11:17 am »

Whatever you do, don't cut or hurt yourself again. Get someone to stop you, if you have to. Get intervention. I've had friends who cut, and a couple had to physically have someone stop them. Does anyone else know that you cut?

babypigggy · « **Reply #2982 on:** January 24 2006, 11:19 am »

Quote from: pretty on January 24 2006, 11:11 am

well just keep smiling **

(: the best words anyone could ever say. just keep that smile on your face, and everything will be okay. ^_^

LSD · « **Reply #2983 on:** January 24 2006, 11:20 am »

yes sis.. i'm always keeping one really forced smile but its a smile!

Quote from: LadyUltima on January 24 2006, 11:17 am

Whatever you do, don't cut or hurt yourself again. Get someone to stop you, if you have to. Get intervention. I've had friends who cut, and a couple had to physically have someone stop them. Does anyone else know that you cut?

talking to my personal experience this things usually you keep them in secrets
just my closets friends know that i have a pretty suicidal mind

moezychan · « **Reply #2984 on:** January 24 2006, 11:26 am »

Quote from: LadyUltima on January 24 2006, 11:17 am

Whatever you do, don't cut or hurt yourself again. Get someone to stop you, if you have to. Get intervention. I've had friends who cut, and a couple had to physically have someone stop them. Does anyone else know that you cut?

Except for here, nobody knows. I usually do it on my arm, and I wear long sleeves. In the summer I do it on the upper arm. I have been known to do it on my face as well. I tried obvious places, but nobody ever noticed, and if they did, they'd just say to stop thinking about it and it would go away. It's not so easy to stop thinking about it. I've tried.

Jeannette · « **Reply #2985 on:** January 24 2006, 11:32 am »

Tell someone who knows how to get you help. Don't necessarily shout it to the neighborhood, but don't keep it to yourself. I'm sure there's a hotline you can call if you think you won't be able to resist cutting, or tell a pastor or a doctor, someone who can help and that you can trust.

babypigggy · « **Reply #2986 on:** January 24 2006, 11:34 am »

Quote from: moezy-chan on January 24 2006, 11:26 am

Except for here, nobody knows. I usually do it on my arm, and I wear long sleeves. In the summer I do it on the upper arm. I have been known to do it on my face as well. I tried obvious places, but nobody ever noticed, and if they did, they'd just say to stop thinking about it and it would go away. It's not so easy to stop thinking about it. I've tried.

DON'T DO THAT I KNOW IT FEELS GOOD, BUT DONT DO IT! HURTS YOU IN THE LONG RUN ><"

the reason i bought an exacto knife is for that..but i stopped...cause i learned the positive side to life, please don't cut....mine didnt leave scars on my arm..it left on my leg though...=\

LSD · « **Reply #2987 on:** January 24 2006, 11:37 am »

Quote from: LadyUltima on January 24 2006, 11:32 am

Tell someone who knows how to get you help. Don't necessarily shout it to the neighborhood, but don't keep it to yourself. I'm sure there's a hotline you can call if you think you won't be able to resist cutting, or tell a pastor or a doctor, someone you can help and that you can trust.

it doesnt work trust me

babypigggy · « **Reply #2988 on:** January 24 2006, 11:39 am »

yessu. hotlines suck. ive never called one, but i have feeling they talk to you weird..like "awww honey what happened?" i dont know..sometimes it just feels like they wont understand you when they talk to you like that you know..O_O

Jeannette · « **Reply #2989 on:** January 24 2006, 11:43 am »

I've never cut myself or wanted to, and I've never called one of those crisis hotlines either. Having never experienced it, I don't know what those calls are like or understand the kind of pain that would make someone hurt herself, so perhaps my advice doesn't mean a whole lot. Even still, do whatever you have to do to keep yourself from doing it again, no matter what.

Shadeslayer · « **Reply #2990 on:** January 24 2006, 11:45 am »

Urgh...cutting...*shudder*

I've never done it nor will I ever do it....

Please don't try to harm yourself, Moezy-chan! Try and think of the good things in life, be optimistic!

babypigggy · « **Reply #2991 on:** January 24 2006, 11:47 am »

Quote from: LadyUltima on January 24 2006, 11:43 am

I've never cut myself or wanted to, and I've never called one of those crisis hotlines either. Having never experienced it, I don't know what those calls are like or understand the kind of pain that would make someone hurt herself, so perhaps my advice doesn't mean a whole lot. Even still, do whatever you have to do to keep yourself from doing it again, no matter what.

feel glad. (X

moezychan · « **Reply #2992 on:** January 24 2006, 11:51 am »

Once again, thank you for all your help minna-san. You're all truly wonderful. And I have called hotlines. They don't help. I've given them chances and they don't help. It's hard to explain. You'd have to call to find out for yourself. I did come to a decision though. My college has a counseling center; I've gone there before but I stopped going. I don't really like people to help me, but I will go back.

My want to become a teacher will help me push my pride away. And you're right pretty-chan, it doesn't help, but also babypigggy is right. It does feel good. It has a sort of bittersweetness to it. It hurts but at the same time it gets rid of all the mental anxiety. I will work on it, but it won't be gone for a long time. I know that much. I'll do it one day at a time. That's all I can do.

babypigggy · « **Reply #2993 on:** January 24 2006, 12:01 pm »

Quote from: moezy-chan on January 24 2006, 11:51 am

Once again, thank you for all your help minna-san. You're all truly wonderful. And I have called hotlines. They don't help. I've given them chances and they don't help. It's hard to explain. You'd have to call to find out for yourself. I did come to a decision though. My college has a counseling center; I've gone there before but I stopped going. I don't really like people to help me, but I will go back.

My want to become a teacher will help me push my pride away. And you're right pretty-chan, it doesn't help, but also babypigggy is right. It does feel good. It has a sort of bittersweetness to it. It hurts but at the same time it gets rid of all the mental anxiety. I will work on it, but it won't be gone for a long time. I know that much. I'll do it one day at a time. That's all I can do.

But you know, Moezy-chan, there's many people who have gone through maybe not exactly what you have, but you helped me once, remember? You can make it through, yessu, cutting temporarily relieves the pain....its like taking anger out on yourself in silence...=\ anyways, writing a journal, and letting tears out really does help. ><"

moezychan · « **Reply #2994 on:** January 24 2006, 12:09 pm »

That's where this place comes in handy. I let my feelings out on here. I have you all to lean on when I need help.

itsafactiact · « **Reply #2995 on:** January 24 2006, 12:41 pm »

Please do so, lean on us all you want! And being a teacher is a great goal and a great way to give you something to look forward to. We all want you to suceed and be happy and healthy and safe!!

Miss Jenni-Maie · « **Reply #2996 on:** January 24 2006, 02:30 pm »

It's been a month for me since I last cut. It was 6 months before that.
The cuts on my right arm are finally starting to go away.
The ones on the left are deeper, so they'll take a bit longer to go away.
I myself didn't cut for attention. With everything that was going on at the time (family troubles and the drugs and drinking and the crappy friends) I did it because I wanted a problem that I could control. If that makes any sense to you.
I don't do it anymore, or at least I try not to. Last month I caved, I can't exactly remember why, oddly enough. Which all-in-all makes me question my sanity, haha.
AHH! Itchy spots everywhere! What the hell are these things!? They're driving me crazy!

moezychan · « **Reply #2997 on:** January 24 2006, 03:16 pm »

Aww, Endoh-chan. We can work on getting rid of our problem together. At least we are both aware that what we're doing is wrong. We just gotta hang in there.

I'm really starting to get depressed now. I'm really not used to telling people my problems, and when I do it's like opening floodgates. It goes everywhere.

I've gotta learn to control that.

itsafactiact · « **Reply #2998 on:** January 24 2006, 03:18 pm »

hey its better than keeping it all inside and bottling it up, because I do that and trust me its not good when the pressure gets too much and you explode around the ones who you don't mean to explode upon

Sugar Fairy · « **Reply #2999 on:** January 24 2006, 04:17 pm »

cutting, self-inflicted injury is usually triggered by the following:

It reduces physiological and psychological tension rapidly.
Some people never get a chance to learn how to cope effectively.
Problems with neurotransmitters may play a role.

it also lists in the site that there are several websites that teach how to cope.. http://www.focusas.com/SelfInjury.html

for me, if i have any problems, i always blab about it with my best buddy. that's my way of dealing with things, unwinding to others. it really really helps.

or post on this forum. you can never run out of support here, particularly this thread. i swear, i've never seen a forum full of hugs and cookies and support before.

it's a great place to be in. and i also think that if you feel real lonely and depressed, just say something here, and you'll realize just how much everybody supports each other. it's really a good place to be in

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