The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)

[moezychan]

I feel too depressed to enjoy Spring Break coming. I'm stuck in a rut. My life has become too routine and  boring and lately I've been considering changing my major. I won't do that because I really want to be a teacher. It's what I'm supposed to do. I know it is, but lately I've been so bored of everything.

Life is so boring, and so predictable. I need some excitement, and I don't mean anime. I need to do something that I've nevef done before, and nobody can help me. I hate this.

[aishiteru]

I feel too depressed to enjoy Spring Break coming. I'm stuck in a rut. My life has become too routine and boring and lately I've been considering changing my major. I won't do that because I really want to be a teacher. It's what I'm supposed to do. I know it is, but lately I've been so bored of everything.

Life is so boring, and so predictable. I need some excitement, and I don't mean anime. I need to do something that I've nevef done before, and nobody can help me. I hate this.

i should find charme somewhere in the world and we could kidnap you. that could give you excitement (or fright) and it won't seem so predictable. haha.

[Moon]

Do whatever you feel is going to make you happy. You should take a break from all the work that you're always doing. I know you work well under stress and you like it (I have no idea why, I hate stress personally) but goodness, give yourself a long deserved break. You really should. Go out shopping, See a movie, spend time with family, go visit extended family, etc.

[Shiunu]

moezy-chan, just go out and do something!! You don't have to wait, or get someone to help you with it. Just keep following your dream, which is to be a teacher and just have fun! There may be times when you get bored with everything. But you can do whatever you want.

[aishiteru]

i'm in need of comfort food. i feel as if it's almost time for my period to come so like.. cravings like crazy are happening.

[Shiunu]

^ Same here aishiteru.

[bie liao]

just go be sponatenous for a day with no regrets; I mean, maybe later on in life you can say, "Woah, that was a craaa~zy day, man," but live life to its fullest!  I know exactly what you mean by the whole stuck in a rut thing; I experience it too.

Sometimes just a crazy party with your friends or a good talk to people you trust is exactly what you need~!  <3 I hope you feel better about life soon!

[moezychan]

i should find charme somewhere in the world and we could kidnap you. that could give you excitement (or fright) and it won't seem so predictable. haha.

*Sarcastically* Yeah, that's exactly what I had in mind aishiteru-chan! But one thing, by stating it will make it predictable because I know you'll do it!

I'd suggest going on vacation, or I don't know, honestly. I'm sorry your feeling so depressed. What did you have in mind in terms of excitment? What, to you, is excitement?

I'm going to Washington D.C. next Sunday. Day before Spring Break. I'm going to see the Holocaust museum with my college. Maybe that'll break me out of my rut. As for excitement, it has to be something that I've never done before, and something that'll intice my mind. I need something educational that'll help me learn more and grow. That's excitement for me.

moezy-chan, just go out and do something!! You don't have to wait, or get someone to help you with it. Just keep following your dream, which is to be a teacher and just have fun! There may be times when you get bored with everything. But you can do whatever you want.

I will be a teacher. That I'm making sure of. As for going out and doing something, I just got back from jogging with my dog. Turns out I'm faster than him. He couldn't keep up with me!

just go be sponatenous for a day with no regrets; I mean, maybe later on in life you can say, "Woah, that was a craaa~zy day, man," but live life to its fullest! I know exactly what you mean by the whole stuck in a rut thing; I experience it too.

Sometimes just a crazy party with your friends or a good talk to people you trust is exactly what you need~! <3 I hope you feel better about life soon!

I don't do parties. I hate crowds. They make me nervous.

Honestly minna-san, I feel so ungrateful. I have everything I need, and a few of the things I want. I have a wonderful education, a family who loves me, friends, a warm bed to sleep in, and so much more. I even have some material possessions. My CCS DVD boxset, the webcam that I bugged my mom for a whole month to get, I'm able to get new anime online, and yet it feels like something's missing. I feel empty like a part of me is torn out. I can't describe it, but there's something missing in my life, and I don't know what it is.

[aishiteru]

Honestly minna-san, I feel so ungrateful. I have everything I need, and a few of the things I want. I have a wonderful education, a family who loves me, friends, a warm bed to sleep in, and so much more. I even have some material possessions. My CCS DVD boxset, the webcam that I bugged my mom for a whole month to get, I'm able to get new anime online, and yet it feels like something's missing. I feel empty like a part of me is torn out. I can't describe it, but there's something missing in my life, and I don't know what it is.

i know how you feel, moezy-chan. i've been there and well, to get out of my rut, my friends decided to come over and we had a sleep over at my house with a bunch of movies and snacks and such. well.. i think it was just 2 friends. haha. `=P

[moezychan]

i know how you feel, moezy-chan. i've been there and well, to get out of my rut, my friends decided to come over and we had a sleep over at my house with a bunch of movies and snacks and such. well.. i think it was just 2 friends. haha. `=P

It's been so long since I've had a sleepover, or even went to one. 10 months I think. Since last May. I don't get to do those anymore, and I miss them.

[Moon]

Okay, I'm going to get a little religious here, so bare with me. Maybe what you need to do Moezy-chan is spend a little more time with God. I know you're not exactly the same religion as me but we both believe in God and I'm sure you pray from time to time. Praying is always a helpful thing when you feel empty and feel like there is something missing in your life.

[moezychan]

Okay, I'm going to get a little religious here, so bare with me. Maybe what you need to do Moezy-chan is spend a little more time with God. I know you're not exactly the same religion as me but we both believe in God and I'm sure you pray from time to time. Praying is always a helpful thing when you feel empty and feel like there is something missing in your life.

I do spend time with God. I pray to him, and I teach him to my students. Don't forget, I teach Sunday School, and I truly love it. I've been asking him to help me, but he hasn't answered yet. I know he will, in his time, but I always tend to get impatient.

[aishiteru]

I do spend time with God. I pray to him, and I teach him to my students. Don't forget, I teach Sunday School, and I truly love it. I've been asking him to help me, but he hasn't answered yet. I know he will, in his time, but I always tend to get impatient.

God will definitely answer you back soon, moezy-chan! i've had my share of problems too (and they were really bad problems, might i add) and he has answered my prayers before so definitely, he will help you too.

[Hikari B.]

Everything that happens to us is a result of what we ourselves have done and/or said.

That's why we have to be careful about our actions. Otherwise, karma will torture us. That's what I learned from the Buddha.

[aishiteru]

Everything that happens to us is a result of what we ourselves have done and/or said.

That's why we have to be careful about our actions. Otherwise, karma will torture us. That's what I learned from the Buddha.

very well said, hikari_blaze. very wise words of advice right there.

[Hack]

i'm christian and and i pray , go to church, and talk about God often.
i think praying will help you when you're in need, since Jesus, the son of God, died in the cross for our sins(our bads)and he said that if you pray, he will give you the best answer you can have.

"God blesses those who realize their need for him, for the kingdom of heaven is given to them"- Mattew 5:3
 that means that people who know they need God, heaven will be given to them

but remember, this doesn't mean that you can just know then you will go to heaven.I'm not saying you have to do this, but this was what I learned when i needed help
if you have any question about this, just PM me

[aishiteru]

okay, i know that God is such an important person in life and all and i do love God and all but some poeple in the forums may not believe in God so I think we should change the topic, no?

so, ever get those chocolate cravings right before you have your period? well, i have them now. and well, i'm not necessarily craving chocolate. i'm craving burgers. haha.

[Hack]

okay, i know that God is such an important person in life and all and i do love God and all but some poeple in the forums may not believe in God so I think we should change the topic, no?

so, ever get those chocolate cravings right before you have your period? well, i have them now. and well, i'm not necessarily craving chocolate. i'm craving burgers. haha.

okay...this will be the last(i promise) topic about God, but aishiteru , please know that God is not a person but a spiritual God^^
and yea, I do get chocolate craving,

[Hikari B.]

okay, i know that God is such an important person in life and all and i do love God and all but some poeple in the forums may not believe in God so I think we should change the topic, no?

so, ever get those chocolate cravings right before you have your period? well, i have them now. and well, i'm not necessarily craving chocolate. i'm craving burgers. haha.

I always crave dark chocolate. ^^;;

[aishiteru]

okay...this will be the last(i promise) topic about God, but aishiteru , please know that God is not a person but a spiritual God^^
and yea, I do get chocolate craving, and it's hurt!

oh yes, thank you for pointing that out to me. haha. i didn't realize that until you said it to me. thank you.

maann! i want a burger, fries, and a milk shake for some reason. haha.