The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)

[~Bloody_Rose~]

i don't know what's with him... y'see we're close before, but then i started to.. umm.. let's say not being close to him anymore. that's when he started following me.. i think he just wanted to annoy me.. maybe he's crazy?

[Jeannette]

I don't think you're selfish to not want to move, bie liao. My dad was in the Navy for over twenty years, and we always ended up moving every two years at most. I went to six different elementary schools. Moving is always hard, no matter how far you're moving.

[Cherry-chan]

Maybe your brother just misses your company. He probably wants to spend time with you again like before, but is maybe too embarassed to tell you? Maybe confronting him will help.

@ bie liao: It's natural to not want to move. I know my parents have wanted to move from the house I've lived in for all my life, and I thought it would be hard to adjust to a new life. But I didn't move, after all But change, once in a while is good. But since you really love your life right now, maybe you should talk to your parents and let them know how you feel. You guys should make the decision as a family and it's important not to let anyone feel left out or against the decision! I'm sure your family doesn't want to risk your happiness for a larger yard, ne?

[~Bloody_Rose~]

oh.. bie liao-san... i understand what you're feeling... it's like moving schools.. the place is new to you.. you don't have friends there... but you can always contact your friends by phone or something, right? and even if you move to another place your friendship will never fade.. if you really don't want to move, talk to your parents.. (but i think you should consider you father's feelings..) ah! never mind what i said! do what you want to do! we're here for you! we'll be cheering you on!

[Ashlee]

Cherry-chan is right bie liao. Try talking about it with your parents. I move around alot when I was young. It is tough, but when I started talking about it with my family, they always talk to us before moving. Now, I haven't move in about 5-7 years now.

[AkaiYuki]

Hello, girls!

First, I just want to say "Thank you" to all of you who helped me by taking my survey the other day! I wrote the paper and took the results and it's looking good! ((And you girls proved my hypothesis, too!)) XD I'm going to give you all some cookies ASAP!

Thank you all so much again! ^_^

Now to get on the topic you were all just discussing:

I hate moving, too.. TT__TT I used to like it, but now I've just moved too often.. I've moved more times than years I was born.. How lame is that?? XD But it's still always fun to have a clean slate when meeting new people! : D You can be a whole different person if you want to! ((I always do that.. I have a new personality for everywhere I move.. Kind of scary, really...)) o.o

[Hikari B.]

I haven't move since I was three... Our old house is where my aunt lives now. ^^

[Cherry-chan]

And bie liao, if you do move, you could still contact your friends, like kuro woof-san said, and don't worry, you'll never be away from us! We're like portable friends! We're always around

[AkaiYuki]

We're like portable friends! We're always around

Hee hee! OMG! That's very true! I like that saying!

[bie liao]

Thanks bunches, everyone!  I do think that it would be a cool experience to get out and meet new people in a different neighborhood.  I think it the long run, I'd be okay with it.  After all, a lot of the reason I don't want to move is because I have friends I ride the bus with that I don't see all day, but I can deal with that.  Besides, in about a year I'll be driving myself to school, so it won't matter much.  Overall, I think I have a brighter outlook on moving, and I thank ALL of you so much!

[Cherry-chan]

You're welcome, bie liao !  Is it official that you're moving now? I'm glad you're optimistic about moving! It's just a beginning to a new chapter, and we'll always be here, besides

[bie liao]

Not official yet.  In fact, now they're leaning towards no.  Just because of all the trouble we'd have to go to.  But I'm not sure about anything.  I'll let you guys know when we decide.

[Hikari B.]

Okay. Well, you'll always have us no matter what! ^_^

[moezychan]

Glad to hear that bie liao-chan. Just keep that positive attitude, and I'm sure you'll handle this just fine!

Hello, girls!

First, I just want to say "Thank you" to all of you who helped me by taking my survey the other day! I wrote the paper and took the results and it's looking good! ((And you girls proved my hypothesis, too!)) XD I'm going to give you all some cookies ASAP!

Thank you all so much again! ^_^

Now to get on the topic you were all just discussing:

I hate moving, too.. TT__TT I used to like it, but now I've just moved too often.. I've moved more times than years I was born.. How lame is that?? XD But it's still always fun to have a clean slate when meeting new people! : D You can be a whole different person if you want to! ((I always do that.. I have a new personality for everywhere I move.. Kind of scary, really...)) o.o

No problem! Glad we could help out! Hope you get that A! And I'm kinda curious on your hypothesis. Can you tell us or not?

Okay. Well, you'll always have us no matter what! ^_^

So true! ^_^ And no matter where you move, you know that you'll always be able to access us!

[Hikari B.]

We, your portable pals, are always by you. Wow... Our name. Portable pals! XD

[bie liao]

Sounds like something I could market and sell.  Get your Portable Pals, only (enter large number)!  XD

Seriously, thanks.  And I'm curious about the survey too, AkaiYuki-san.

[Shiunu]

Well I hope that whatever decision you guys make, then you'll keep that positive attitude. I know that it can be hard trying to make new friends and everything. I've gone through that before.

[Cherry-chan]

I'm horrible at making new friends, I sink in the department! I don't really adjust so easily, I always feel embarassed if I'm with a new group of people, so if I ever were to move, I'd probably become a loner. The only way I could ever possibly make new friends is if I move during the summer, so I'd be a new kid at the beginning of the year. I could never make new friends in the middle of the year, not when everyone else is so close and comfortable with each other already.

[Monse-chan]

Ano.... I need a bit of help from you, girls....

You see, I am bit confused, since one of my best friends lost someone that was dear to her... today she didn't come to school, and we were told by the teacher that there was going to be a funeral, and that if we were able, we could go to give her support in saying goodbye....

I didn't talk much with her, we were mostly hugging to each other the whole time.... but I am not sure how I can help her, or act now with her, while she is still in pain (the person passed away yesterday)

Can I get a bit of advice, onegai?

I am not sure she is coming tomorrow to school, but I wonder if I should call her, or leave her with her family? Until now I have only gone to the funeral but I haven´t actually TALKED with her.... and I am not sure what I should say.... 

[bie liao]

If she doesn't want to talk about it, you should let her mourn by herself for a while, but let her know that you're there to lend a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear.  Its always nice to know that there's someone who'll let you talk about something that bothers you.  Just yesterday my friend told me about her cat dying and after she talked to me, she felt better.  Sometimes that's all it takes.  If she looks like she wants to talk about it but isn't sure how, maybe you could start a conversation or tell her that you're always therefor her.

Meh, I'm not very good at advice...>_>