The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)

[LSD]

is called "hormones"...they blind us

[Ashlee]

is called "hormones"...they blind us

Yep. That is the perfect way to say it. ^^ I remember my mom giving me the speach about hormones, ya I couldn't sleep for weeks, why, well it wasn't becase I was scared about the hormones part, but I was scared, becasue my mom was talking to me about it >_>

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also, I feel sore and crazy, i'm on my longest period now...I never have it this long. Only once in a while though, like once a year, and it suc*s

[Hikari B.]

Ain't that the truth? -__- I think boys have it harder. *thinks from the fanfics she read* We haven't learned about that in school... I think we will eventually in Health.

[Ashlee]

Ain't that the truth? -__- I think boys have it harder. *thinks from the fanfics she read* We haven't learned about that in school... I think we will eventually in Health.

So young, so young I'm in grade 11, and well I learn it all. I took a health class and a parenting class, even though I have no plans on being a mother, guys do have it bad, but girls have it really bad. When you are pregnanet ( I think I spelled that right) the hormones goes nuts. Food cravings, mood swings and all that. Kind of how our period are. Our hormones goes nuts.

But once after the baby is born and all that, our hormones goes back to normal, right, no wrong. It takes a while to adjust back to the way it use to be. Depression, and the baby blues some times happen to mothers. What I'm trying to say, is that girls have it far wrose then boys becasue of our body, and all the changes we go though, and some times girls can't take it, and some times we do things to our body becasue of our soictiy (spelled it wrong again). Not eating, or eating to much to fit in. Drugs, and more.

I can't beleive I remember this from class 

[Hikari B.]

That's a point... Fine I'll rephrase it. Kids under the age of 8 have it easier. -.-

[Ashlee]

That's a point... Fine I'll rephrase it. Kids under the age of 8 have it easier. -.-

Yep. They do. They don't have a care in the world, but what's for dinner.

[Hikari B.]

Hey... >_< I cared less about what's for dinner back and then and even now!

...I miss the younger grades like when we do connect the dots. ...

[Ashlee]

...I miss the younger grades like when we do connect the dots. ...

ya. I love doing that. How about catch the flag. That was a fun game. But, I didn't really care about my childhood back then. I always wanted to grow up. Now, I kind of wish I could go back and change some things, but I don't want to. I kind of like it how I am right now.

In two years I will be able to go to College, and stuff. But, also, I kind of didn't have the best childhood in the world. I hate it how my parent teacher called my type of family. I want to yell at her, but that is what they use...oh man I'm trailing off 

Anyway, I remember when I was young, I use to go in the forest, climb trees, big rocks, and do alot of stuff that I don't do now. Because well, I don't feel like going into the woods alone, or getting dirty, also I hate the woods, It creaps me out.  I remember that I use to have my own place. It was really cool. There was a small open area, with a rock in the middle and every thing. The tress grew right beside each other, kind of like a wall, and the the top was cover like a roof from the branches of the three. On one side, there was a small area so that we can get in and out. It was really cool. I called it my own. Now, its a road.....the road beside it was to small, so they have to cut the little wood area, to make it bigger, so now, Its not there.

[itsafactiact]

Aw man that sounds so cool, The closest I had to woods was a park up the street and that barely had any trees. It kinda sucks to grow up in a city but its my home so I love it. I'm such a city girl now

[Miss Jenni-Maie]

We used to have forests all over the place.
But then they cleared them all out for stupid douplex's and retirement homes.

Actually, they're building yet another retirement community right by our school and the middle school (they're across from eachother, pretty much).
That peeves me off. We already have so many "rules" to keep from "disturbing" the OTHER retirement community just a block away, and now they're going to start tightening those rules since this one is twice as close.
If they are going to build anything, it should be government supported housing for families that can't afford the houses around here (real estate is through the roof here. A half-decent house is around 500,000.).

Sigh, I'm starting to hate this town more and more.

[moezychan]

Need to get this out. I am way too stressed anymore. I had a horrible fight with my parents today. I went grocery shopping with them today and they were getting food that I can't eat because of my ulcer. The fight carried on tonight and I have a splitting headache from the whole day. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this.

Said my bit. Carry on.

[itsafactiact]

Aww jeez I hope you feel better, parents can be a bit upsetting and naive. Don't worry, here's my advice:
1. Don't Sweat the small stuff
2. Everything is small stuff

3. BREATHE!

[moezychan]

Aww jeez I hope you feel better, parents can be a bit upsetting and naive. Don't worry, here's my advice:
1. Don't Sweat the small stuff
2. Everything is small stuff

3. BREATHE!

Lol; arigatou. I'll try to keep that in mind.

[Ashlee]

Need to get this out. I am way too stressed anymore. I had a horrible fight with my parents today. I went grocery shopping with them today and they were getting food that I can't eat because of my ulcer. The fight carried on tonight and I have a splitting headache from the whole day. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this.

Said my bit. Carry on.

Don't worry Moezy-chan. Ready soon, you can move out and start to live on your own. I know how you feel. Its the same way at my house, but I got three brothers after me, my dad & mom, and my step parents. Lets say, my out side family (grandparetns, aunts ect), well they like to get into my business.  Ready soon, you will be able to move on your own, have a great job with kids, you life will be set.

As for me, I still got about 5 years left with them. But, I don't mind, as long as I stay in my room from all contact from the world, but my computer 

But ya, some things that help me, kind of 
1. I try to avoid some things that can cause fights. Lets say, I know some thing is right, but they think your wrong and every thing, well, I just agree with them so I don't cause a fight
2. Some times breathing helps, but not all the time. A nice walk usally helps me.
3. If you get into a fight, try going to your room, listen to some music, or read CCS
4. Talk to some one. Its best to say whats on your mind
5. Find some thing to get rid of your angry with. For me, I use drawing as my method. Maybe you can try writing. Since you are so good.

Just some things that might help. It helps me a bit

[moezychan]

Don't worry Moezy-chan. Ready soon, you can move out and start to live on your own. I know how you feel. Its the same way at my house, but I got three brothers after me, my dad & mom, and my step parents. Lets say, my out side family (grandparetns, aunts ect), well they like to get into my business.  Ready soon, you will be able to move on your own, have a great job with kids, you life will be set.

As for me, I still got about 5 years left with them. But, I don't mind, as long as I stay in my room from all contact from the world, but my computer 

But ya, some things that help me, kind of 
1. I try to avoid some things that can cause fights. Lets say, I know some thing is right, but they think your wrong and every thing, well, I just agree with them so I don't cause a fight
2. Some times breathing helps, but not all the time. A nice walk usally helps me.
3. If you get into a fight, try going to your room, listen to some music, or read CCS
4. Talk to some one. Its best to say whats on your mind
5. Find some thing to get rid of your angry with. For me, I use drawing as my method. Maybe you can try writing. Since you are so good.

Just some things that might help. It helps me a bit

Mm; I used to let them think that they were always right, but it got to the point that my dad got a big head and boasted which annoys me. I'm too stubborn to admit that I'm wrong.  Too much pride. As for writing, that is a great stress reliever for me. I love it, but at the same time, it also hinders me. My mom and I constantly fight over who gets the computer and I find that that's the best place for me to get inspired. As for reading CCS, that's what I did yesterday. I love to go hanyaan over all the kawaii S&S moments. Relieves stress for me. Thank you for your advice. *bows*

[Ashlee]

Mm; I used to let them think that they were always right, but it got to the point that my dad got a big head and boasted which annoys me. I'm too stubborn to admit that I'm wrong.  Too much pride. As for writing, that is a great stress reliever for me. I love it, but at the same time, it also hinders me. My mom and I constantly fight over who gets the computer and I find that that's the best place for me to get inspired. As for reading CCS, that's what I did yesterday. I love to go hanyaan over all the kawaii S&S moments. Relieves stress for me. Thank you for your advice. *bows*

your welcome. The same thing happen to my dad too. He started thinking that he was aways right. Its really getting on my nerves now.  I'm lucky that I have a computer in my room that my dad hook up, but my brother always goes into my room to use it. And he goes though my stuff and every thing. I can't tell my dad any thing, because I don't have the proof, but I know he has been doing it because my stuff is been move around alot.....

And S+S moments always bring a smile to my face too. awwww, they are so cute together

[Hikari B.]

Personally, the only problem I have is with Mom. -__- She can bother me a lot every day. Singing and other stuff... The only time I get along is when we watch a soap opera.

The manga has a lot more sweet moments. <3

[Cherry-chan]

Gah! *glomps everyone* I'm back from camp. I'm staying home from school today because my eye is really, really swollen from a mosquito bite I got at camp. I hate this. We're supposed to have a Variety Show today at my school, and I was really looking forward to seeing it. I'm so sad :cries:

Anyway, my family has the tendency to think a problem will just "go away" - if someone is suffering emotionally, they tend to just brush it away, thinking that the problem will just "go away". Wrong, wrong, wrong. It just gets worse from there. My parents are all like, "come to us if you have a problem, we'll help you." When I do come to them with a problem, then they're like, "Just leave it alone! It'll go away!" That's their idea of helping!?

I go all giggly and squeal-ish when I see kawaii S+S moments (actually, whenever I see them together), it always brings out my dreamy side.

[Ashlee]

Gah! *glomps everyone* I'm back from camp. I'm staying home from school today because my eye is really, really swollen from a mosquito bite I got at camp. I hate this. We're supposed to have a Variety Show today at my school, and I was really looking forward to seeing it. I'm so sad :cries:

Oh no I hope your eye gets better. Mosquito are bad this year, eh. The weather is just making them worst. I hope you get better Cherry-Chan!!

Also, how is weather where you live now?? Right now in Sudbury, its a bit better then the last couple of days. We have no more Smog Alert ^_^

[mia-chan]

Poor Moezy-chan. I know how you feel, I just spent the weekend at home and had loads of fights with my parents, couldn't wait to get back to university. Dunno how I'm going to cope in a few weeks when I go back for the whole summer. That's like over 3 months!
I can't wait until I can move out but that will be at least another year away.