The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)

[babypigggy]

I love the rain too.. not when i'm eating ice cream though =\
The rain just.. makes me feell safe and happy inside.

[Ashlee]

Not me. My risk always hurts when it rains, and some times my nee. I broke both my arms, and hurt my nee really bad. ^_^

[Miss Jenni-Maie]

Ahh, the rain....it was raining almost all of last week and I hated it.
But now that it's so freaking hot out, I wish the rain was back.

Ahh, geez. Speaking of stalkers, I got a bit of a stalker on my case.
You remember Josh, right? Well, he's been getting on my nerves quite alot lately. I noticed it alot after I went to a Christian youth convention with him and a bunch of other people from my youth group. He was such a sweet heart to me (I was sick alot of the weekend). But after that things got a tad...creepy.
Since the last time I talked about him, alot has happened. We've had several "talks" and they all resulted with him saying the exact thing over and over: Even if the feeling is mutual, he is not going to date during Highschool.
Sure. That's fine with me.
But even though he keeps saying that, he keeps giving off the signal (flirting, hand holding, etc.) that something might happen, so I make a move and he shoots me down....yet again. I was even bold enough to give him a kiss on the cheek. Still, nothing.
So, now that I've pretty much given up and am trying to just be his "friend" since all this getting shot down is doing a bad number on my self esteem, he still won't quit! No lie, he's following me everywhere! At school, he walks me to all my classes, at lunch he sits waaaaay too close to me, and even at the city bus stop he waits with me until my bus comes. He always has to sit next to me, even in CHURCH!
My goodness. It's really starting to peeve me off. Even when I'm not responding, or even when I snap at him, he doesn't get a clue. With him, the lights are on but nobody's home.

Ahhh! I have no clue what I'm going to do.
Sorry, I needed to rant. This boy is driving me CRAZY!!!

[moezychan]

Daijoubu, daijoubu. Ranting is good. I rant all the time. And yeah, I would be angry too! What a jerk to lead you on like that! Still, stay dilligent, and as for him getting a clue, that is probably highly unlikely.

[Senefen]

How annoying!
I guess if it gets too bad you can just rant to him how you feel, when it cant get any more annoying than it arealdy is, but I know thats easy to say and hard to do. I had something kinda similar but it's pretty much sorter out.

Started Uni - there was this guy, Aaron. Nice guy, wasnt attracted to him, no chemistry but still a nice guy. It started to become obvious he liked me, going out of his way to sit next to me and stuff in lectures. This would have been fine but he was kinda starting to gross me out. He brought in a 4 day old slice of pizza in his bad one day and ate it cold, then I could smell it all thru class, or he took off his shoe and massaged his foot than started eating a vegemite sandwich (plus I hate vegemite and it smells). He wore tank tops and shorts EVERY DAY! IT'S WINTER!!! The first time I saw him in long sleves and pants was on the last week of term (last week). and he was taking up a seat I wanted someone else to take up ^.~. So I just started avoiding him and hoped he would get the hint. I think he pretty much has, he still sits next to me when he can but he doesnt come to all the classes and he has more classes than me so I dont see him at lunch. *sigh* Too harsh? There was nothing there. He was nice but I didnt really have fun with him you know. Theres another guy I like and its fun when I'm with him, lots to talk about etc.
*shrug* anyway I dont have uni for 7 weeks so drama is put on hold for a while. >.> makes me gald I went to an all-girls high school (sometimes ^.~)

[Hikari B.]

I can't believe so many people here are being stalked. ...

o_O That guy doesn't seem to know what's sanitary...

Thoughts on the Matter: Even, if you don't want to hurt people... If you think it's annoying, just tell them! Hopefully everything will work out from there. ^_^ If that doesn't work, call the police. =P

[Shiunu]

Well Endoh-chan, maybe you should just try to talk about it with him? Gomen I'm not much help

[Senefen]

I can't believe so many people here are being stalked. ...

Tsubasa fans are just beautiful, funny, smart people!

[Ralea]

Amen.

Endoh-chan, in your case, the simplest way of getting out seems to be confronting the guy and yelling out "stop stalking me!" talking to him. Ask him what he really thinks about the two of you.

Me? Stalker, not. Delusional guy, yes. There was once this guy who I become nice with because people were bullying him. After our talk though, he started spreading around the school that I loved him and stuff like that. It annoyed the freakin hell out of me. I can't talk to him cause that will increase his delusion that I like him. My friends came to the rescue. My best friends confronted him and told him off while my guy friend stuck to me throughout, just in case. The guy was emotional, he actually CRIES in school, and he threatened to chuck a spade at some boys laughing at him. After that, he casted me dark looks. Now though, it's over since he's now after a new girl. Phew.

[Razeasha]

Tsubasa fans are just beautiful, funny, smart people!

aww, my self esteem has just been boosted!
As for stalkers...I think the first time you talk to them it's good to be politique, but after that be blunt. tell them to buzz off.

[Fai]

Stalkers scare me, so my friends tease me all the time about it! But I think the best way to confront them, is to talk to them nicely. Honestly, I'm horrible in these situations, sorry I'm not any help 

[Ashlee]

Sorry I can't help either. I've never been stalk, as far as I know. But maybe you should just ask him nicely, if he doesn't stop, then get mean, if he doesn't stop there, then take out the big guns. By that I mean, go to the police. Because its just stupid what he is doing.

[Cherry-chan]

Exactly! I agree with you!

I'm horrible at handling those types of situations. I end up going beserk and yelling at the "poor" dude. But seriously, I blow my lid when I have to.

The best thing, I'd say, is to confront him. If he gets angry, then he's a jerk and not a true friend. The best thing I'd say would happen if you confronted him is him telling you how he truly feels and why he's behaving that way. So yeah, confront him, and then go on from there. I'm not much of a great advice giver (I leave that to moezy-chan ), but I do try, whenever possible.

[moezychan]

I'm not much of a great advice giver (I leave that to moezy-chan ), but I do try, whenever possible.

*blush* Arigatou, but your advice also sounds good. Confrontation is always the key. Get it out in the open.

[Ralea]

If you can't, have it on skywriting or billboards or something! Okay, I'm kidding.

[Ashlee]

If you can't, have it on skywriting or billboards or something! Okay, I'm kidding.

you know, that would work

*points below* I put my problem in a spoiler because it has to deal with a love interest on another fourm, which is kind of .......*blushes*

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ok, this just happen. I"m in another fourm. Most of the members knows each other, and they are friends in realy life. Any way, one of the guys likes me o.O and he put his name as *i love kairi* ahh, I need to talk to some one, because this ever happens to me. On his msn, Its *i love ashlee*....if you are wonding why I"m not freacking out over there, remember every one there knows each other, and I feel more comforable here... *cries* no one is supose to like me its weird.....

OK, I got that out of my system...Now lets back on topic ^_^

[moezychan]

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ok, this just happen. I"m in another fourm. Most of the members knows each other, and they are friends in realy life. Any way, one of the guys likes me o.O and he put his name as *i love kairi* ahh, I need to talk to some one, because this ever happens to me. On his msn, Its *i love ashlee*....if you are wonding why I"m not freacking out over there, remember every one there knows each other, and I feel more comforable here... *cries* no one is supose to like me its weird.....

OK, I got that out of my system...Now lets back on topic ^_^

Aww, poor Ashlee-chan. I think the best thing to do would be to confront him. Tell him that you don't like him as much because he's doing this. Hopefully he'll get the message and back off. If not, just ignore him and hope it all dies down.

[Ashlee]

Aww, poor Ashlee-chan. I think the best thing to do would be to confront him. Tell him that you don't like him as much because he's doing this. Hopefully he'll get the message and back off. If not, just ignore him and hope it all dies down.

thank-you moezy-chan. I talk to him, and he is stop. ^_^

[Miss Jenni-Maie]

Well, I'm in a good mood today!
One, I didn't have to see Joshua at all today! Mostly because I just hung out in different spots than usual. So that brightened up my day.

And another reason has nothing to do with me, but anything this romantic will make any girl go in crazy mode.
Today we had a Spirit Assembly. Basically it's when the whole school crowds in the gym and we give awards to all the sports teams, the school dancers perform, the judo club, gymnastics, etc.etc. And then they pull students from the crowd and play silly games.
Well, this year they pulled out couples that have been together for quite awhile and played a game where the girls and guys are asked the same questions in seperate rooms and then the answers are compared to see how much each couple knows eachother.
Well, including the students, one of our new teachers was suprised with her boyfriend (who was away with family and was flown back in today), and they played as well.
Anyways, that wasn't it. After the game, her boyfriend (I can't remember his name) came up to the podium and started giving this speech about her.
Then, he drops to his knee, and pulls out a ring! ( which was freaking huge, by the way!) While, behind him, the student council is holding up a sign that says, "Will you Marry me?"
Of course, she said yes!
It was the most romantic thing ever! I had never been to a live proposal before, haha!

Although my mother ruined it for me when I got home. Her response?
"Yes, she will remember that moment for the rest of her life. Even after they're divorced."
She's such a downer, haha!

[moezychan]

Awww, that is so romantic! I am so going hanyaan from it all!