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charcoalz · « **Reply #5220 on:** July 07 2006, 03:15 pm »

heh, when i'm depressed...
i dont' really do anything, i just sit there and ROT. (haha...if that's a good word to describe it..)
really, i dont' do anything, cuz my mind is so...messed up that i dont' even know what to do.
Well, sometimes to get it off my mind, i watch tv, read manga, watch anime, draw, play the piano, etc...
but i don't tend to eat..<_<"""
heh xD

Shiunu · « **Reply #5221 on:** July 08 2006, 11:13 am »

Hey girls! I just saw Pirates of the Caribbean 2 today with my best friend. The movie was amazing and I loved it!

Ashlee · « **Reply #5222 on:** July 08 2006, 11:22 am »

Quote from: Shiunu on July 08 2006, 11:13 am

Hey girls! I just saw Pirates of the Caribbean 2 today with my best friend. The movie was amazing and I loved it!

I have to wait until tomorrow to watch it. I bet it was great. *goes off in crying mode*

Quote from: charcoalz on July 07 2006, 03:15 pm

heh, when i'm depressed...
i dont' really do anything, i just sit there and ROT. (haha...if that's a good word to describe it..)
really, i dont' do anything, cuz my mind is so...messed up that i dont' even know what to do.
Well, sometimes to get it off my mind, i watch tv, read manga, watch anime, draw, play the piano, etc...
but i don't tend to eat..<_<"""
heh xD

I kind of the same. I just rot where I am. I usally stay in my room all the time. Even when I'm not depresse. Because I don't get along with my family. >_>

Fai · « **Reply #5223 on:** July 08 2006, 02:58 pm »

Quote from: Shiunu on July 08 2006, 11:13 am

Hey girls! I just saw Pirates of the Caribbean 2 today with my best friend. The movie was amazing and I loved it!

Wasn't it?! XD I hate the end though ne? T__T I was yelling at the screen, at about oh...2:45AM XD It was quite interesting. Much more mention of rum in this one lol! If anyone else saw it, what was your favorite scene? Spoiler tags please XD

moezychan · « **Reply #5224 on:** July 09 2006, 12:42 am »

Not to ruin the party, but this IS the Girl Thread and talking about movies belongs in the General Media section

Anybody up to changing the discussion before we get in trouble??

Tenkuuken · « **Reply #5225 on:** July 09 2006, 12:55 am »

(comes out from a mirror, sits)

I'm raiding the Girl Thread for a while.

It's just that I realized how unexpressive or open guys are about things that affect them, unlike girls that have the time to talk about "girl stuff" and enjoy it.

I second an observation a colleague of mine made about men. She said that boys don't really talk about stuff around them, their favorites, what makes them tick off or what makes them cry (to which I retorted, "Boys don't cry; men do.") They don't also want to talk about stuff that may concern them, nor do they open up about what affects them deep down. I guess the Guy Thread (which was started by a girl) confirms so much.

It's no wonder men tend to commit suicide... They keep everything inside until they implode. You girls are lucky.

Is it really a male thing not to talk about themselves? What do you observe?

Sorry, I haven't slept since last night, and I worked overtime. I'm just saying my two cents' worth.

(runs back through mirror; big red Chinese dragon follows)

Hikari B. · « **Reply #5226 on:** July 09 2006, 01:11 am »

Welcome, Ten! I guess it's the whole thing about acting all 'macho.' Personally, I say this:

One thing that makes a man is if they're brave enough to cry.

And crying can make things better. We let out all our sadness out. It's just another way to tell how we feel...

Razeasha · « **Reply #5227 on:** July 09 2006, 01:47 am »

On that note about crying...It's odd, because I've recently stopped crying as much and it makes me feel insensitive...

My dad cries...alot...more often than I remember when I was a kid...It kind of makes an akword moment when my dad is all teary and the rest of us are fine...but I think it's good for men to cry, because it reminds us that we're all human.

and on another guy note I was more macho than my ex-boyfriend XD

Fai · « **Reply #5228 on:** July 09 2006, 07:11 am »

I think it shows that men are not afraid to cry if they do...Better than committing suicide or drowning your sorrows in othe ways. Crying kinda makes all other kinds of feelings come out of a person. It's good to cry once in a while I think.

Quote from: moezy-chan on July 09 2006, 12:42 am

Not to ruin the party, but this IS the Girl Thread and talking about movies belongs in the General Media section Anybody up to changing the discussion before we get in trouble??

Gomen!!

Cherry-chan · « **Reply #5229 on:** July 09 2006, 12:16 pm »

Just watched Pirates of the Carribean: Deadman's Chest today. It was great.

Anyway, on the topic about crying as a "manly" thing or whatever, I think crying is perfectly fine. Most of my guy friends don't cry (I know they want to

), they just kinda say their emotions with words. If guys want to cry, they should. Everyone should cry. One of the side effects of bottling up your emotions is having a nervous breakdown. I know it from experience ^^;.Crying is better than nothing, ya know. Well, it's at least better than, as Fai said, committing suicide or doing outrageous actions. It's an emotion outlet.

tsukihime · « **Reply #5230 on:** July 10 2006, 05:32 pm »

oh my god!!! woofie-chan collapsed!!!!

Tenkuuken · « **Reply #5231 on:** July 10 2006, 05:45 pm »

Quote from: Cherry-chan on July 09 2006, 12:16 pm

Anyway, on the topic about crying as a "manly" thing or whatever, I think crying is perfectly fine. Most of my guy friends don't cry (I know they want to ), they just kinda say their emotions with words. If guys want to cry, they should. Everyone should cry. One of the side effects of bottling up your emotions is having a nervous breakdown. I know it from experience ^^;.Crying is better than nothing, ya know. Well, it's at least better than, as Fai said, committing suicide or doing outrageous actions. It's an emotion outlet.

In my case, it just so happens that most of my male friends or acquaintances find crying to make them less manly. They believe it makes them more real, though. There are some that I know, though, that think it's less macho to release their feelings, much more cry, and live up to the idea. Thye became really hard drinkers and acted more angsty.

I admit to passing through a point when I didn't want to cry whenever I feel something, so I channeled everything to work, writing, traveling, even drinking, but I still ended up crying anyway.

~Emethyst~ · « **Reply #5232 on:** July 10 2006, 09:43 pm »

Quote from: Tenkouken on July 10 2006, 05:45 pm

In my case, it just so happens that most of my male friends or acquaintances find crying to make them less manly. They believe it makes them more real, though. There are some that I know, though, that think it's less macho to release their feelings, much more cry, and live up to the idea. Thye became really hard drinkers and acted more angsty.

I admit to passing through a point when I didn't want to cry whenever I feel something, so I channeled everything to work, writing, traveling, even drinking, but I still ended up crying anyway.

Heh.. Just my idea.. Don't sue me guys...

Crying does not symbolize being weak nor makes you less manly but yet it means that you have to let your sadness out, even once in a while. 'Cause if you keep it hard to yourself, it might burst one day and the worst part: you may blunt it on someone else.

So this does not only apply to men but also to women too. Don't keep your emotions locked up in your chests. Open up and share them

xOLight_AngelOx · « **Reply #5233 on:** July 11 2006, 08:08 am »

Quote from: Shiunu on July 08 2006, 11:13 am

Hey girls! I just saw Pirates of the Caribbean 2 today with my best friend. The movie was amazing and I loved it!

i saw it yesturday it was awesome XD

Quote from: Fai on July 08 2006, 02:58 pm

Wasn't it?! XD I hate the end though ne? T__T I was yelling at the screen, at about oh...2:45AM XD It was quite interesting. Much more mention of rum in this one lol! If anyone else saw it, what was your favorite scene? Spoiler tags please XD

ya the end made me sad. i love it how they were always talking about rum LOL

LSD · « **Reply #5234 on:** July 11 2006, 11:09 am »

Quote from: Shu~Rei on July 10 2006, 09:43 pm

Heh.. Just my idea.. Don't sue me guys...

Crying does not symbolize being weak nor makes you less manly but yet it means that you have to let your sadness out, even once in a while. 'Cause if you keep it hard to yourself, it might burst one day and the worst part: you may blunt it on someone else.

So this does not only apply to men but also to women too. Don't keep your emotions locked up in your chests. Open up and share them

sowwy...i agree with you
but in this male world..crying..is symbol of weakness..
we live in a machomen world
so..we have to deal with it =P
i heard that the moms tell to their kids..boys don't cry ¬¬'

i also agree with Tenko-kun about..that cuz boys hide their feelings..they..are the ones who commits more suicide that boys.. cuz..they are forced to hide their feelings..thanks to sociaty..stereotype
not all are open about this
i knew some boys that ..cried..without been shammed =P

and my dad..i only looked him..crying once in my enterly life
when my brother died

Hikari B. · « **Reply #5235 on:** July 11 2006, 12:10 pm »

Quote from: LSD on July 11 2006, 11:09 am

sowwy...i agree with you
but in this male world..crying..is symbol of weakness..
we live in a machomen world
so..we have to deal with it =P
i heard that the moms tell to their kids..boys don't cry ¬¬'

i also agree with Tenko-kun about..that cuz boys hide their feelings..they..are the ones who commits more suicide that boys.. cuz..they are forced to hide their feelings..thanks to sociaty..stereotype
not all are open about this
i knew some boys that ..cried..without been shammed =P

and my dad..i only looked him..crying once in my enterly life
when my brother died

*pats* I wonder who even came up with that rule.

wishingstarx · « **Reply #5236 on:** July 11 2006, 12:46 pm »

Quote from: LSD on July 11 2006, 11:09 am

sowwy...i agree with you
but in this male world..crying..is symbol of weakness..
we live in a machomen world
so..we have to deal with it =P
i heard that the moms tell to their kids..boys don't cry ¬¬'

i also agree with Tenko-kun about..that cuz boys hide their feelings..they..are the ones who commits more suicide that boys.. cuz..they are forced to hide their feelings..thanks to sociaty..stereotype
not all are open about this
i knew some boys that ..cried..without been shammed =P

and my dad..i only looked him..crying once in my enterly life
when my brother died

*pats back* I'm sorry about your brother

Quote from: Hikari_Blaze on July 11 2006, 12:10 pm

*pats* I wonder who even came up with that rule.

me too

LSD · « **Reply #5237 on:** July 12 2006, 06:34 am »

sankyuu :3
but..i'm alright ^^;;

--
and about the rule
well is something that had been..since..i dunno forever
since we lived in caves and..hurt ..
males went to bring the food
and girls just stay ..taking care of the babies
and..the male had to eat first before the woman..cuz..it was his food
and..since then..men ..has been.spoilt to be..served =P

of curse there is always..exceptions..
but in the most of the cases..
is true .-.'

babypigggy · « **Reply #5238 on:** July 12 2006, 08:01 am »

I was forced to go to cyberarts camp to do 2D animation (pretty cool actually xD ) .. and the instructor for 2D is ADORABLE.. hes soooo cute ><" but hes like.. 18 or something.. and yeah i think im crushing on him.. i find it a tadd creepy .. .

Hikari B. · « **Reply #5239 on:** July 12 2006, 08:26 am »

Well, if you like him, you like him. End of story.

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