The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)

[moezychan]

oh really?? *phew*
last thing i want is get on the bad side on the forum counsler, because they might use examples of me in a bad way when dealing with other patients like:

Moezy-chan: whats wrong cherry?
Cherry: Im feeling sad today..
Moezy-chan: Its because of that sick perverted CEDRIC!!!
Cherry: yeah i know his an idiot, thanks for helping me, im happy again, sicne we all hate cedric.

I would never do that and you know it! I give better advice than that, and if you don't believe me, ask anybody who comes to me for advice. They'll back me up!

Is it true that most psychiatrists blame the husbands for the wife's probelms??
Or is that a myth that gets guys all paranoid when they're wives go to a psychiatrists?
or I'm I making this up, its all in my head?? XD~~

I really wouldn't know. I'm not a psychiatrist, and I don't have a husband.

[c3d]

I would never do that and you know it! I give better advice than that, and if you don't believe me, ask anybody who comes to me for advice. They'll back me up!

I really wouldn't know. I'm not a psychiatrist, and I don't have a husband.

lol im just teasing ^^

oh casue i thought sine you doing psyc, i thought you might know

[moezychan]

lol im just teasing ^^

oh casue i thought sine you doing psyc, i thought you might know

I am, but most of it is for a child's mind. I know more about how children act, and how their parents and the environment around them affect their personalities than marriage psychology. I'm not going to teach parents. That's something they will have to figure out themselves. All the other type of help I give comes from my own common sense. I'm very perceptive. I learn more from experience than books any day, and I make it a point to learn as much as my brain can absorb.

[c3d]

I am, but most of it is for a child's mind. I know more about how children act, and how their parents and the environment around them affect their personalities than marriage psychology. I'm not going to teach parents. That's something they will have to figure out themselves. All the other type of help I give comes from my own common sense. I'm very perceptive. I learn more from experience than books any day, and I make it a point to learn as much as my brain can absorb.

how would you treat people who were suicidal?? like around the teenage ages? would you know?

[moezychan]

how would you treat people who were suicidal?? like around the teenage ages? would you know?

Oh, that's easy, because I used to be suicidal. I can easily relate. I did get over it though, mostly. I attempted, but obviously, I didn't follow through. I still want to die though, but at least it won't be by my hand.

As for what I would tell them, it would depend on the person, and the reason. I treat all people with the same amount of respect, but I treat them in ways that are fitting to their personality.

[c3d]

Oh, that's easy, because I used to be suicidal. I can easily relate. I did get over it though, mostly. I attempted, but obviously, I didn't follow through. I still want to die though, but at least it won't be by my hand.

As for what I would tell them, it would depend on the person, and the reason. I treat all people with the same amount of respect, but I treat them in ways that are fitting to their personality.

What you suicidal?? na no way, to me, you would be the last person to do something crazy like that >< XD

My friend was heart broken and she swore that she will kill herself and i tried everything to stop it, but she ended up going back to her bf again so yeah.

i just wanted some tips if things like that every happened again..

thanks for the adivce, have a cookie ^^

[moezychan]

What you suicidal?? na no way, to me, you would be the last person to do something crazy like that >< XD

My friend was heart broken and she swore that she will kill herself and i tried everything to stop it, but she ended up going back to her bf again so yeah.

i just wanted some tips if things like that every happened again..

thanks for the adivce, have a cookie ^^

Arigatou; but I really was. It lasted since I was 15, and it ended in March of this year. 7 years. Although, it would go on and off. It became really strong for the past 2 1/2 years. My life was a mess. That's why I'm really good at giving advice. I make it a point to remember my successes and my hardships so I can help people who went through what I went through. You learn more that way than all the psychological courses in the world! Makes me grateful for my life though.

As for your friend, let her know that you'll be there for her, and always take a suicidal threat seriously. Sometimes it may be just for attention, but if it's attention she wants, then give it to her. Better than her actually being serious and actually doing it.

[Sya0ran]

Aww...omg!!  All this suicidal stuff is scaring me.  Some of my friends are doing it and it scares me...why would anyone want to waste their life?!  God gave them life so that they could live and live their lives to the fullest.  Not waste it by cutting their time short by being suicidal.  Suicide is never the answer, its the greatest sin anyone can commit.  x.x;  I know not everyone believes in God but still...there are consequences to your actions if you decide to die early.  All of those you left behind who you think don't care for you will most likely miss you...=/

[c3d]

Arigatou; but I really was. It lasted since I was 15, and it ended in March of this year. 7 years. Although, it would go on and off. It became really strong for the past 2 1/2 years. My life was a mess. That's why I'm really good at giving advice. I make it a point to remember my successes and my hardships so I can help people who went through what I went through. You learn more that way than all the psychological courses in the world! Makes me grateful for my life though.

As for your friend, let her know that you'll be there for her, and always take a suicidal threat seriously. Sometimes it may be just for attention, but if it's attention she wants, then give it to her. Better than her actually being serious and actually doing it.

Yeah i took it serious cause she was one of those girls that she will do something like that XD

[moezychan]

Aww...omg!!  All this suicidal stuff is scaring me.  Some of my friends are doing it and it scares me...why would anyone want to waste their life?!  God gave them life so that they could live and live their lives to the fullest.  Not waste it by cutting their time short by being suicidal.  Suicide is never the answer, its the greatest sin anyone can commit.  x.x;  I know not everyone believes in God but still...there are consequences to your actions if you decide to die early.  All of those you left behind who you think don't care for you will most likely miss you...=/

Before I was suicidal, I didn't understand it either. You don't actually understand it until you attempt to do it. And I don't mean just thinking about it. Actually attempting it. You won't believe the stuff that went through my mind when I was suicidal. But I will agree with you, it isn't the answer. I realize that now. I have too much going for me to end my life. I still want to die though, but I'll get rid of that eventually. I don't know when, but I will. As far as believing in God, I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him. He saved my life. I know he did.

[Moon]

I'm so lost. I'm too lazy to go back and look at all the pages to see what's been going on. I've been in New York for the past few days and just returned home today.

I saw three broadway plays and toured the city, which was fun. But it's good to be home. I'll be back to my old ways again.

[Zeldi]

Yeah i´m confused too. >_<
What´s going on here?

[moezychan]

Yeah i´m confused too. >_<
What´s going on here?

Ano, right now we're talking about suicide. We can change the subject if you want though.

[Director of Music]

suicide? 0.o

[moezychan]

suicide? 0.o

It's a long story. Go back about a page, and you'll see why. Kinda embarrassing for me actually. Also, remember, you're not allowed to do one word posts. They can get deleted.

[Moon]

Yeah, lets discuss something else. Hm...but what? That's always hard then most stuff girls can talk about have already been talked about here.

[Cherry-chan]

I'm so weird... I cried today when I was reading an S+S fic. I don't know why but if it's a good fic I cry, like actually needing tissues and tears streaming down my face. My mom thought that someone on the internet was threatening me or that I had a boyfriend or something that just broke up with me (yeah right. My mom would kill me if that was true)!

Anywho, I'm talking nonsense. What are we talking about? Suicide? I've never really been suicidal, but I used to think about how everyone would react if I did kill myself. But i don't think about that anymore. Unless I'm really mad at my family.

[Moon]

I've cried when reading fanfictions..well, mostly gotten teary-eyed really.

I almost cried at the end of episode 23 of Tsubasa ( despite most thought it was rather funny. I can understand, but still.. it was just so sweet. ;__; *sniffles* )

I don't think I've never been suicidal before. Then again, I have thought about what it would be like it I did died somehow and how those around me would react. But other then that, nothing.

[c3d]

I've cried when reading fanfictions..well, mostly gotten teary-eyed really.

I almost cried at the end of episode 23 of Tsubasa ( despite most thought it was rather funny. I can understand, but still.. it was just so sweet. ;__; *sniffles* )

I don't think I've never been suicidal before. Then again, I have thought about what it would be like it I did died somehow and how those around me would react. But other then that, nothing.

I havent really done suicidal things or thoughts, but the only thing close is how i thought about what would happen if i was in a car crash *after my gf broke up with me, needed to relax the emotional pain, so physical pain seemed alot better, well for me to handle*

but those scray thoughts are over ^^

I cried watching the last S+S moments in CCS *shhhh dont tell anyone* bahahah eh who cares, i dont mind if you guys did *looks around* XD

[Cherry-chan]

Lol I don't know why but I think it's cute that a guy would cry at CCS rofl!