Oh my gosh, that is so sad!! I hate how when girls get pregnant at young ages, people call her bad names and treat her like she's trash, but the boy/man who did it always gets congratulated!! A girl is called a sl*t or a wh*re for those things, but a boy is always a pimp or a player for doing it! It's just terrible..
It really is terrible. After I was sexually abused my brother would constantly say it was my fault. He usually did it when we were fighting verbally. He couldn't compete with me at verbal fighting so that was his defense. I always got panic attacks when he said it. At least I didn't get pregnant. I'm thankful for that.
I made it clear when we contacted the police not to make it public. I didn't even want to go to court. It was too embarrassing for me. I got over it now though. Part of it helps that my brother doesn't live here anymore.
Question: What do you think the appropriate age for some to get pregnant is?
I say between the ages of 25-30. That's the time that a woman stops physically growing and she knows her body more. The way I see it, the woman is growing at the same time the baby inside her is growing and she isn't completely mature to handle carrying a baby.
I'm 22 and I still think I'm too young to have a baby. Even if my body could carry one, I know my mind wouldn't be able to handle it. Besides, I'm too busy to take care of a baby. And if I had a baby I know I couldn't abort it, and I wouldn't want to give it up so it's best for me to not have one.