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Re: Advice Column: Ask Away~ ^^
« Reply #80 on: May 04 2005, 09:49 am »
I can help you ^^ I finished learning about those a month ago ^_^ What do you need help on? Like specifically?
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« Reply #81 on: May 07 2005, 06:42 am »
i'm not sure if there's any advice out there that can help with this 'problem' but i'll tell you guys anyways..

my friend and i are really close but lately i feel like we're being more distant.. i mean like she's always with her other friends who i don't like and she has so many problems with like girls and stuff.. it's like she's a totally different her.

she's talks to boys most of the time too. i mean like i know she's changing and everything but should i tell her that i feel like we're distant now.. or should i stop being friends with her.. or what should i do??

i really like this friend and i don't want to break our friendship.. but sometimes she just doesn't get how i feel when she's with other people and stuff.. AH!! i feel like all my friends are growing up and are way TOO into make-up, boys, etc..

ARG!!! even my mom says that she shouldn't be wearing so much make-up right now.. haha *sigh
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« Reply #82 on: May 07 2005, 06:46 am »
I'm kinda going through the same thing....my friend started going off with other friends, and talking loads about boys...do what I did, and try waiting it out for a while. I did, and now we're back to normal...I guess sometimes they need room, and want to try out being different people.

Give her a chance, and I'm sure that she'll be back to normal.
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« Reply #83 on: May 07 2005, 02:22 pm »
Quote from: Airi on May 04 2005, 09:49 am
I can help you ^^ I finished learning about those a month ago ^_^ What do you need help on? Like specifically?

On the punnet squares...iI don't understand them, they're a buncha squares with symbols o_O;
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« Reply #84 on: May 08 2005, 02:29 am »
Quote from: Ruby Chan on May 07 2005, 06:46 am
I'm kinda going through the same thing....my friend started going off with other friends, and talking loads about boys...do what I did, and try waiting it out for a while. I did, and now we're back to normal...I guess sometimes they need room, and want to try out being different people.

Give her a chance, and I'm sure that she'll be back to normal.

thanks.. i'll give that a try.. *sigh..
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Re: Advice Column: Ask Away~ ^^
« Reply #85 on: May 21 2005, 02:26 pm »
That some times works but Maybe it's better to talk to her, if your as close friends as you say you are then as your friend she'll try and listen to your problems, just like you have when you two were close. Ok i got one teen drama for you.
i have a friend that's Sorta kinda pregnant. She's scared to tell her boyfriend because he might desert her. What should i do? Should i let them work it out or intervine a bit?
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« Reply #86 on: May 21 2005, 02:34 pm »
I had the exact same problem with my friend.
The problem was, they broke up already....she did finally tell him (after I had to verbally abuse him on the phone to get him to come over) and it was pretty bad at first. He thought about it, and finally accepted it. But she ended up getting an abortion....[shiver] she just told him that the test was false. He was pretty pissed.
Hmm....it really depends what the guy is like. I can't guarentee that he might desert your friend, or that he'll be a man and take responsibillity. But he does have the right to know about this, considering it IS his child.
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« Reply #87 on: May 22 2005, 03:33 am »
THanks that helped. I told him that it takes a man to be a father. which is true an dhe just said he'd take care of it.
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« Reply #88 on: May 22 2005, 04:00 am »
I have a bit of a problemo.
Well I have 3 of my friends (5 the other two were some were) who got in a big fight with my other friend cassie. I do't know whats going on all I know is that when they went over to Cassie, Cassie started saying stuff like ur always treating me lik s*** and u all two r always acting like b****s and always leaving me out :lurk:. I had no clue what was going on till my friend told me that Cassie told Stara that they were going to kick her (stara) out of the group even though we r not. Bri said that they were going to kick Cassie out of the group because all she talks about is her problems and boys. Not likr=e there is nothing wrong with them. But thats not the point.
I feell like I either have to pick my friends Cassie side or my other 5 friends I dom't know what to do! I don't even want to be in this chaose! Only three more days(not counting the weekends) of school and instead of all my friends getting allong we r fighting.  :boxing: :violent1:
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« Reply #89 on: May 22 2005, 07:35 am »
You only have three more days of school? I still have a little over a month left.
I've been in that situation before...Actually I'm still kind of in that same situation. Cause I'm friends with two "groups" and both hate eachother and I feel I'm caught in the middle. [sigh] Can't exactly give you ny advise because I can't even help myself...
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« Reply #90 on: May 22 2005, 07:50 am »
my best friend.. who NO ONE likes.. so i have something like that right now.. i mean like all my friends hate her and everyone else i know mostly likely hates her too.. i feel bad for her but there are times when i really find her REALLY annoying.. but we all just pretend she's ok and stuff.. and just say how much she bothers us behind her back..

AH that sounds so bad.. O.O uh oh.. well i guess you should tell them that they can't just 'kick' someone out a group because they're different.. i mean like my friends are ALL totally different from me and i'm cool with it.. if they truely find cassie annoying or stara.. then they should just leave.. i mean like it's really stupid to just kick someone out because they're a bit different and act different..

i mean like my friend totally changed into talking about boys, wearing make-up, etc.. but i can't just 'kick' her out because she's like that.. i guess what i'm trying to say is that they have to understand each other.. give each other some space then and it will just go away.. i guess.. HAHA

i really think you shouldn't choose any group of friends.. i mean like if they're going to hate you because you chose the other group then they're not really your friends.. you should stay friends with both groups and the two groups should just separate from each other.. this way you don't have to feel like you only have to choose one group of people.. i feel like that sometimes... and i choose to stick with the wrong people and i got totally betrayed.. *sigh..
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« Reply #91 on: May 22 2005, 10:18 am »
That's pretty much what I'm doing right now....but then one side will come up to me, "You've been hanging out with them too much lately....why are you being such a *****?"
[sigh] This is why I'd prefer being all by myself...at least then I wouldn't have people fighting so much because of me.
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« Reply #92 on: May 22 2005, 04:23 pm »
i really hate that.. *sigh i'm a loner at heart too endoh..

i mean like people won't say that to me.. it's the other way around.. everyone ditches me for their other friends.. *sigh.. and before in like grades 1 to 5.. my two best friends hated each other and would umm 'fight' over me.. like if i hung out with one of them too much the other would be mad at me.. and it was so hard... till this day they still hate each other.. haha.. and they don't really like me hanging with each other.. one of them is the friend that no one likes.. haha

if i were you cblossom.. i would stick with both groups.. and would probably tell them that if they really hate each other then they should just leave each other.. you can go back and forth to each group and if one of them says to you that you shouldn't be hanging with the other group.. or something along that line.. i would immediately stop being their friends.. i mean like they have to understand how hard it is for you because you can't choose between freinds.. trust me on this one..

that's my advice or what i would do if i were you..
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« Reply #93 on: May 23 2005, 04:28 am »
Thanks for the addvice I hope it works. I have a feeling that tomorrow is going to be a LONG day at school I just want to get Monday over with tomorrow. There is another reason why they want to kick Cassie out of the group it's because she lies about everything like when she said that she was cutting herself and was showing us her so called "scars" there was nothing there. And then she says don't tell anyone about it but she is the one telling the whole school!! And she blames us that everyone knows. Everyone is saying that she is just saaying that so she can get attention.
VexNet that's mean what the bullies would do just because u would draw and watch anime.
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« Reply #94 on: May 23 2005, 02:48 pm »
new problem umm sort of..

i got this friend who's totally in love with this guy that she met from this online game.. and no offense but she totally doesn't have a chance.. i mean like the way she explains it make it seem like he likes her too but i've talk with this guy and he likes someone else.. plus this guy live far away from her..

i can't really just tell her to give it up because that would be really mean.. and it's just annoying how she talks about him most of the time.. i think i know him well too because she talks about him all the time.. O.O man what should i do?? tell her to stop telling me all this stuff.. she's sort of obessed.. O.O i mean like making his picture as her wallpaper!!! O.O oh man.. and talking to him whenever he's online..

i see it was a brother-sister sort of love thing but i'm really scared of telling her so what should i do?!?!? AH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! should i tell her to give it up.. or just leave her be.. or what??!?!?! WAH!!!!!!!!!! i totally hate this love and like thing right now.. it gives me the creeps.. haha.. i'm going to stop on the whole liking and loving someone else thing.. i had enough already and can't stand the people around me like this either.. not that i'm not happy for them just it really creeps me out.. hearing about all these boys makes me.. *faints..
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« Reply #95 on: May 24 2005, 06:25 am »
Although you may hate it, I think you should just leave it be for the time being. Trying to talk some sense into ur friend might just damage ur friendship, instead of making her realise she's wrong.

But if this carries on over the next couple of months, maybe you'll seriously have to consider stepping in and talking it over.

Any help?
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« Reply #96 on: May 24 2005, 01:01 pm »
CCassie is like that too thats all she ever talks about is Aston or whateve his name is.

Ruby Chan is right she gave good advice just try and talk some sense in ur friend and see what happens.
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« Reply #97 on: May 25 2005, 09:31 am »
thanks you two.. haha i'll see now.. i told my friend about this too today and she was saying how i should tell her right now

i also did haha some tarot reading.. but not many people believe in these things.. but i do readings.. hehe.. i got a not so good reading.. i mean like i don't believe it 100% but it's sort of right..

but i'll just see what happens over time.. thanks for the advice again.. XD
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« Reply #98 on: May 27 2005, 01:27 am »
Hmm...need more advice here please...

I'm gonna go college, and do things like maths and economics (yay fun!) so I can become an accountant...but loads of people are also pressuring me to go university. Should I do that, or just go staright from coll to a job?
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« Reply #99 on: May 27 2005, 08:34 am »
well it all depends on if you want a better education i guess.. haha i can't really help because i'm not really sure how since i'm only in grade 9 right now.. hehe..

well if you want to go to college i say go for it.. but i also think that if you're capable of getting into a university you should.. i mean like university is better than a college right?? i'm trying to get into a university..

ok i'm pretty sure that didn't really help you but that's the best as to how i can explain.. sorry...
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